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Anorgasmia or disorder?
By: Randall P. Perez, Fri Jan 8th, 2010
Orgasm, according to Dr. Carlos Neira, urologic surgeon and specialist in sexual health, "is a physical sensation and emotional response to a state of excitement and pleasure. It is the climax of sexual intercourse. "
This feeling has been defined by some doctors and specialists in scientific literature, however, Dr. Neira sees as a personal stage and therefore everyone has different experiences, although there are certain physical manifestations that can be shared, such as increasing the heart rate. If you for example have the opportunity to buy viagra and sexual partner use this pill, the imminent notice this increased heart rate due to irrigation or more heart pumping blood to the factor by which you might benefit as prolonged erection and give you more possibilities to you to reach orgasm.
Orgasm is appealing for many women the forbidden fruit, because of the prevailing macho culture of our people: the man is believed with the right to satisfy only their sexual instincts.
According to the specialist, the number of women who complain about not having experienced orgasms is very high. "The figure is far higher than you and I can imagine. There are women who are married to twenty years in the office and confess that they have not had an orgasm. That's the frustrating and affects them greatly, "shared the doctor.
Lately it has become fashionable to call anorgasmia, which is used to discuss the lack of orgasms, however, we should clarify that this is a sexual dysfunction that may be associated with organic causes such as endocrine, neurological and gynecological, and so on. However, the psychological factor is vital to produce anorgasmia.
For these reasons, Dr. Neira argues that no woman can be diagnosed prior nonorgasmic if it has not been subjected to a series of interdisciplinary assessments designed to assess your life as a whole and not just as a response to a stimulus.
It also believes that poor sex education is a major responsibility for ensuring that women do not experience orgasm. "In Latin America, the cultural connotation of sex is closely linked to procreation and to the satisfaction of men, not women. Hence, the male arrives, and ends as solved your problem goes away, not caring if she finished or not. "
In the case of Alexandra, "I think definitely not suffer anorgasmia, because if so even when he could masturbate climax, so it is best to seek the heart of the matter," said Dr. Neira.
"I think the problem may be that this young man has not yet found a suitable partner, and perhaps only been with guys who sought satisfaction, regardless of it," he continued.
Another thing that may be causing this and to be evaluated is the story of the young, maybe suffered physical or psychological abuse in childhood by an adult, and that altered their sexual behavior. "It would be interesting to know and talk to her and see what keeps inside," advised the doctor.
The first point gains strength because it is likely that Alexandra did not receive the necessary stimulus to reach orgasm or to have been with men who do not know the female anatomy, leading to not know the exact points that sets off a woman.
So, Alexandra, it is more advisable to visit a specialist, and as he tells you you do psychological therapy. Likewise, Dr. Neira said that you "find yourself a real man and not egomachos who aim only to satisfy his vanity or his machismo and needs."
Sexual health is a vital component of our lives, so we can not neglect this aspect which affects both our happiness.
